Most of my work is with mature couples who are working cooperatively and respectfully to dissolve their marriage.  Every now and then I get a case where I know I am going to make a true difference in a person’s life.  This is chapter one in what I think will be a heartwarming story of personal empowerment.

Let’s call her “Sandy”.  A sweet looking woman in her early 40′s who still has a childlike appearance despite the fact that she looks like she is carrying the weight of the world.  It was apparent that coming to my office was a huge step and she was very nervous.  She had told her husband a number of times that she wanted a divorce. He simply ignored her, usually walking away angrily and returning later to as ”what’s for dinner?”  I won’t get into too many of her personal details but here are some facts that came out that I see as red flags. Read more….